The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women And What To Do About It
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Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never
seem to be attracted “nice” guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that
always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were
never romantically interested in YOU.
What’s going on here?
It’s actually very simple…
Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is.
They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT
LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and
it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER
have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY
like… but she’s just notinterested?
Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN
“FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with
“logic and reasoning”.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you
expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do
our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will
make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a
woman’s “approval” or “permission”.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to
them… EVER.
Don’t get me wrong here.
You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means “always
getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually
get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase
her around and want her approval annoy her…
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner,
bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It’s only NATURAL when this happens…
That’s right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try
to buy your attention and affection”.
Your good intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at
manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship
With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with
women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being
approached in one way or another ALL THE
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by
men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per
week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her
running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts
saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two
dates.
This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other
guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.
Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.
There’s a much better way…
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY
feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or
is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I
can tell you that women usually have their “attraction
mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and
unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and
they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are
to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy
young woman.
But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how…
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up
before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that
attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and
money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a
certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these
things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality
than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be
one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t
rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same
kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for
approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING
AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing
whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea…
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over…
Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of
Situation With Women
Now I’m going to blow your mind…
A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading
body language. That’s ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re
out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows
it.
And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss
her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous,
she won’t help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing
her, getting physical… everything.
If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will
probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one
step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the
way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the
kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or
helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.
Hey, I’ve been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to
be successful with women…
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t
know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was
attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to
ask out, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can
still remember that night… right on the spot I made the
decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy
things, I finally figured it all out.
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